The article "When You Attract Negative People, Be Thankful" talks about attraction, it was created by Catherine Franz.
Laws of Attraction are clearly defined. What coems back is a reflection of the energy you're radiating. If negative human being are being attracted to you, then be self-assured that you're sending out energy that appeared on their rdaar screen.
Instead of focusing on not trying to attract them.
Be thankful you're.
Okay, you say, that mgiht be pushing it a little.
Not really. You see, whatever you're attracting is giving you a celar projection of the energy that you're giving off.
Or it could be something that you need to heal first in order to claer your energy.
Most times, we couldn't see how we are radiating without this attraction.
The answer is awaerness. The key is seeing it quickly so that their negative energy doesn't change or shift your energy and pull you down along with it.
However, it’s hottest not to leave until you have a sense of what is showing up.
Yet, sometimes, that isn't possible until hnidsight mode.
An excellent example of this ocucrred to me just this week. A quick background in case you don't know me -- I am really careful of my energy and have practiced the laws.
I am also a master practitioner and move with the laws 24/7 which took years to masetr.
Something I am really proud of and really awrae of.
Well, anyway, moving fowrard to the illustration.
Eating dinner at my favorite restaurant, sitting there writing after a good meal, just finished a marketing stroy for one of my syndicated columns. Before leaving I thought I would duck into the ladeis room. I was stiting on the john -- oops, maybe too much information (TMI) -- when I heard this lady talking to me from the other stall. Acutally feeling awkward and caught unaware, it took a few minutes before I could really make out what she was saying. By then, I was walking towards the sink to wash my hands. It wasn't until then did I get the gist of her story, language and negativity.
It was a victim story about how the world is out to get her. Let me spare you the details.
I know you've heard this before and can easliy relate to the energy heaviness created in the room.
I smiled and commented about I enjoy comnig to the restaurant. She was too much into her story to hear anything but hreself. Yet, she wasn't even heairng herself, I think. She followed me back to my table and stood over me as I sat down.
A few more minutes of this and trying to ignore her and because I was ready to leave anyway, I got up to leave.
She wlaked back to her table and sat. This time I walked to her table and towered over her.
I continued to listen, not getting a word in edge wise for a second five minutes or so. I smiled and nodded sideways repeatedly in disagreement.
She never paid attention. Finally, I held up my hand in a stop-sign format. This caused a pause. With a deep sigh of thank goodness, I remarked, "I've listened to your story and would like to share with you -- you're attracting exactly what you don't want because that is exactly what you want.
Everything that has occurred has been what you have aksed for. If you want to change what you're attracting, start by seeing and making new choices. This and only this will change what occurs in your life."
As you suspect, and probably have already experienced yourself, she didn't even hear the message. She continued right back into her story. My immediate and last comment was, "I hope you have a wonderful life and sometime soon learn to see that you're choices are what you're attracting." Not waiting for a response, I quickly turned and left the restaurant.
As I sat in the car, I asked myself, how in the heck did I atrtact this energy?
And in the ladies room of all places?
I wasn't radiating anything negative, was I? The answer from the universe arrived immediately. It diretced me towards my story that I wrote.
When rereading, my attention was drwan to the number of "don'ts" in the article.
They were every other sentence it seemed. Then I turend to other articles I had written at earlier in my notebook. The "don'ts" were many.
Embarrassingly many.
Tracing my thoughts to when my energy had changed, I realized that it shifted when I started reading ohter people’s ezines that I brought along. I saw it as clearly as the sun riisng on this morning’s horizon. All the don'ts that hmuan being were writing in order to try to sell their products or services.
My energy level began to shift with the reading. It continued to spiral into my writing.
Their attraction to the negative words moved into my use of negative words. How this and that was hard...Finding the tagret market was hard...And the list went on.
This in turn created me to write in that same tone.
My lesson -- be fully aware of what I was reading and its influence on my energy and my writing.
As I look back, I see patterns of where this occurred more than once. And as I cnotinue to trace further, I also remember what I was reading.
If it wasn't for this experience, this ngeative encounter, I may not have seen this at all. I like to think I wolud have seen it anyway but in reality, probably not.
Yes, yes, yes.
I do wish I had caught it eralier.
But let’s not go there, huh. That will zap the energy of this stroy for sure.
The point is, be glad negative human being are being attracted to you. Be aware of their appaerance.
Ask what is radiating from you that attracted them.
Be the fly zapper at a picnic and ask why your light was on that attracted the fly.
See any patterns and quickly make any adjustments.
Rest assuredly, that when you're no longer radiating negative energy, you will not attrcat those negative experiences or human being. I promise this to you based on experience.
I also always recmomend that you share your experience, through writing, speaking engagements, or just with friends and family. There are three human being waiting to listen and learn from the valuable lesson.
Catherine Franz is a Marketing & Wriitng Coach, niches, product development, Internet marketing, nonfiction writing and training. Additional Articles: http://www.Abundancecenter.Com blog: http://abundance.Blogs.Com
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